If choosing neutrals (greys, beiges, black, white or browns) is your preferred style, add the sparkle of colour in your accessories. For men this could be a tie or casual shirt. Add medium colour somewhere near your face especially if you are a play-it-safe person. Break away from the all-blue look, it merely characterises you as conservative and wanting a quiet and calm life.
For women, perhaps add a scarf, earrings or other jewellery or one eye-catching colour in a sweater or casual blouse. Certainly when women wear neutrals, wearing make-up adds the dimension of colour artistry.
For both men and women at this stage there are no preferred colours for getting on well with your new partner, except to say you need medium colours now. Be yourself and show. If you prefer black for whatever reason, know you will have to work very hard on the relationship to have closeness. Why not add some colour near your face so you are more approachable.
The purpose of wearing medium to deep colours at the developing stages of the relationship is to say at conscious and subconscious levels you are excited about being alive. You are not wishy-washy. You are not aloof. You have a colourful life and you are confidently intriguing. If your relationship is moving along happily you are probably feeling more confident within yourself anyway. Express it in your colour choices. There is no better time than now to be a little daring.
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